A generic confirmation email, perhaps a PDF attachment, and then silence until the day they arrive. That gap between booking and arriving is one of the biggest missed opportunities in Irish tourism.
Someone has just booked with you. They are excited. They are already imagining themselves there. And then what happens? For most tourism businesses in Ireland, the answer is 'nothing'.
What happens:
after they book
Peak
Excitement is highest when you book and fades every day after.
Zero
Touchpoints between booking and arrival for most Irish operators.
Less
Likely to cancel when they have received warm pre-arrival info.
The excitement
you are not protecting
Think about what is happening in your guest's mind the moment they complete a booking. The excitement is at its absolute peak. They have made the decision, committed their money and their time, and they are already looking forward to it. That feeling is genuinely valuable, it sets the tone for the entire experience that follows.
But excitement fades. Every day between booking and arrival, the anticipation loses a little of its edge. By the time they arrive, if you have not done anything to maintain that connection, they are showing up as relative strangers who booked something some time ago.
Guests who feel less connected
to a booking are more likely to cancel.
A guest who hears nothing between booking and arrival has no way to build anticipation. They cannot read about what to expect, what to bring, what other guests have said. All of that context, which could be shaping how they feel about their upcoming visit, simply does not exist for them.
Guests who have received thoughtful communication leading up to their visit have a higher emotional investment in it. They have already told their friends about it. They have started looking forward to specific things. That investment makes cancellation feel like a loss rather than a convenience.
The content does not need to be long. A short, warm, specific email from a real person takes ten minutes to write and can be automated to send to every guest at the right moment. The effort is minimal. The effect on how guests arrive is not.
The principle: your first hello
continues after the booking
Each touchpoint between booking and arrival is an opportunity to deepen the relationship, build anticipation, and remind your guest that the person they are going to meet is genuinely looking forward to seeing them.
A beautifully considered confirmation email. A follow-up three days later with three things worth knowing. A reminder the day before with directions and a personal note. Each one is a small act of hospitality that extends your welcome backwards in time, and the businesses that do this stand out from everyone else, because almost no one does.
Three things to improve
what happens after the booking
Listen to
this chapter
In this episode we look at the gap between somebody booking and somebody arriving, which for most tourism businesses is filled with silence. We get into why the experience really starts the moment they pay, how anticipation fades over the weeks in between, and what three short emails can do about it. We also go through exactly what goes in each one, including the weather, which every overseas visitor worries about and almost nobody thinks to mention.
Somebody has just booked with you.
And they are delighted with themselves. Genuinely. They have been talking about this trip for months, they did the research, they found you, and they went ahead and committed. The money is gone out of the account. The date is in the calendar. They are already imagining it.
And then what happens?
For most tourism businesses in this country, the honest answer is: nothing much. A confirmation email lands, usually automated, usually fairly cold, and then silence. Nothing at all until the morning they turn up at your door.
That gap, between booking and arriving, is one of the most overlooked opportunities in Irish tourism. And it costs nothing to close.
Here is the idea I want you to hold on to through this chapter.
The experience does not start when they arrive.
It starts the moment they book.
Think about what is going on in somebody's head the second they click confirm. That is the peak. That is the highest the excitement will ever be. They have made the decision, committed the money, and now they get to look forward to it. That feeling is genuinely valuable and it sets the tone for everything that follows.
But excitement fades. It is the nature of it.
Every day between the booking and the arrival, the anticipation loses a bit of its edge. Work gets busy. The car needs doing. Other parts of the trip start competing for attention. And by the time they actually land at your door, if you have done nothing at all in between, they arrive as near-strangers. People who booked a thing a while back and are now here to do it.
Now picture the other version.
A confirmation that reads like it came from an actual human being who is looking forward to meeting them. Then, a few days later, a short note with three things worth knowing before they come. Something practical, something to look forward to, something that shows you have been thinking about their day before it has even started. And then a reminder the morning of, with clear directions, where to park, and a line from the person who will be meeting them.
That guest arrives warm. Already invested. Already fairly sure they made the right call.
And that feeling colours absolutely everything about the day itself.
There is a hard-nosed benefit to this as well, beyond the warmth of it.
Guests who feel connected to a booking are less likely to cancel when life gives them a reason to. They have built up a bit of a relationship with you over those weeks. They have told people about it. They have started looking forward to specific things you mentioned. Cancelling starts to feel like a loss rather than a convenience, and that is a genuinely different calculation.
And there is what happens afterwards. Guests who felt looked after before they arrived write more generous reviews, and more specific ones. They describe the whole arc of it. The looking forward, the finding the place, the day itself. Those are the most persuasive reviews there are, because a stranger reading one can put themselves inside the story.
Now, I want to be very clear about something, because I can hear the sigh from here.
This does not need to be complicated. It does not need a sophisticated system or an email marketing campaign or anything you would need training for.
A confirmation that sounds like a person rather than a receipt. One follow-up a few days later with something useful in it. A reminder the day before with everything they need.
And if you are wondering what goes in them, here is roughly what works.
The confirmation is short and human. Delighted to have you booked in. Here is the date and the time. Here is what to bring. Here is my name and my number if anything changes between now and then. That last line is worth more than people think. It tells somebody there is an actual person at the other end of this.
The one a few days later is where you build the anticipation. Something practical they will be glad of, like what the ground is like underfoot or where to get a decent lunch beforehand. Something about the place itself, a bit of the history or whatever is happening on the water that month. And something honest about the weather, because every overseas visitor coming to Ireland is quietly worried about it and nobody ever addresses it. Telling somebody that a soft day is often the best day for what you do is genuinely reassuring, and it is the kind of thing they will repeat to whoever is travelling with them.
And the last one, the morning of or the evening before, is purely practical. Where to go, where to park, what time to be there, what to wear. No selling in it at all. Just the removal of every small uncertainty before they set off.
That is three emails. They can each be short. You could write the lot of them in an afternoon. And in most booking systems they can be set up once and sent automatically forever after, so every guest gets them without you having to remember anybody.
So what can you do this week? Three jobs.
The first one. Read your current confirmation email as though you were a first-time guest who has just handed over a couple of hundred euro for something you are excited about. Does it feel warm? Does it feel like the thing has begun? Or does it read like a docket? If it reads like a docket, rewrite it. And that single change improves every booking you take from this day forward, which is about the best return available on twenty minutes of work.
The second. Write one follow-up email to go out three to five days after somebody books. Three things worth knowing. One thing to genuinely look forward to. A name and a number in case they have a question. That one email, landing at the right moment, brings the excitement of booking back up again and sets the tone for everything after it.
And the third. Find out whether your booking system can send pre-arrival emails on its own, or whether something simple could be set up to do it. You should not be relying on yourself to remember this in the middle of August. If it is automatic, it happens every time, for everybody, without fail, including on the days you are run off your feet.
And here is what I want to leave you with.
Your first hello does not end when somebody books.
It keeps going, the whole way to the moment they walk through your door.
And the businesses that understand that stand out enormously. Not because they are doing anything clever. Because almost nobody else is doing it at all.
Are you making the most of the time
between booking and arrival?
Answer based on your site as it stands today, not how you would like it to be.
Your experience is worth
a website that does it justice.